Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Gnocchi with Sage Brown Butter and Roasted Squash

So fall is the air here is Wisconsin. One of my favorite things about fall is all the squash and pumpkins around. As part of our CSA we received a delicate squash, and sage. As soon as I saw those two ingredients I was thinking Roasted Squash with Sage Brown Butter. When searching for Sage Brown Butter at some of my frequented food blogs I came upon this Pumpkin Gnocchi Recipe. I combined these two recipes to come up with this recipe. It was superb and definitely getting made multiple times this fall.

Ingredients:
1 small Delicate or Butternut squash
1 lb Gnocchi
1 handful Sage
1/4 cup butter
2 tablespoons olive oil
Salt and Pepper to taste
1/4 cup Parmesan Reggiano

Directions:
1) Pre-heat oven to 400F
2) Cube the Squash into chunks about the size of the Gnocchi you are using. This particular time I used mini Gnocchi.
3) On large rimmed baking sheet toss squash with oil, salt and pepper. Roast for about 25 mins or until tender *
4) Bring a pot of salted water to a boil. Cook the gnocchi in boiling water until it floats to the surface, about 2-3 minutes, remove and set aside to drain.
5) In a pan melt butter until it just starts to brown
6) Toss in sage till crisp- about a minute
7) Add Squash in and saute- about a minute
8) Add Gnocchi in- toss till coated in butter.
9) Remove off heat garnish with Parmesan Reggiano and serve

* You can roast squash ahead of time making this a really quick weekday meal. If you do make it ahead of time I would suggest heating it to at least room temperature before tossing it in the pan. 

Sunday, August 31, 2014

Saying Goodbye to My Lucky Star

Today M and I, buried our Lucky's ashes.

Lucky was the most magnificent cat you would meet. She was agile, curious, and beautiful. She was scared of thunderstorms but when the sun was out she loved exploring. She did not like going outside unless she could see me or MS. Then again, she loved exploring the porch (that was as outdoorsy as she got). She would meow like crazy for wet food and when she had her mousy with her.

Over ten years ago now, after a couple of years of living in the US, we really missed having pets. We had grown up with lots of pets (You can read more about it at my sister's blog), so we decided to start with a cat. We adopted her from Pet's Mart/Jefferson County Humane Society. I named her "Lucky" because I had been listening to the Britney Spears song Lucky,and because she was a black cat and people stupidly and superstitiously thought them unlucky and it is hard to find families for them. I thought she would be "Lucky" and she was for me. I would often call her my "Lucky" star.

I still remember the first day we brought her home. My parents and sister had to work that day but I was to be home with the cat. Unfortunately, as soon as we got her home, she found her home below my sister's bed. No persuasions or food got her out. After trying every so often for 2 hours, I fell asleep on the bed. When I woke up, there she was crouched in the corner looking at me. I put my hands out gently so she could smell it if she wanted. It took her 10 minutes but she finally made it to my arms. I slowly petted her and she started purring. Since that day, her and me, we had a connection.

When I came home from college she would sit at the counter waiting for me to pet her. When I cried she would come sit beside me. When I watched TV she was on me. When my grandfather died she sat on my feet by his bed as as I said goodbye. When I moved out I took her with me, and she adjusted really well. She actually loved being the only pet. She accepted MS, and made him love cats too, especially her. She was part of our big days too, when we got married and came home, when we bought a house. She loved the new house.

And then suddenly she was gone, and I was in more pain than I could imagine. I have had to say goodbye to pets before but this is much harder than other times. Perhaps because it came out of nowhere, perhaps it was because she was my mine and not as much a family pet, or perhaps because it was ultimately me who had to make the decision. Most likely a combination of all of the above.

It will be a week tomorrow. I still cry randomly at home when I miss her. I know the pain will get better, and I also know I will never stop missing her. But today I finally said goodbye! In Hinduism (not that I am particularly religious) you have a period mourning. Then you say goodbye (usually on the 12th day),  and start celebrating their life- meaning you mourn but you remember them positively and smile. Tomorrow, I will start celebrating my Lucky's life (or at least try to)!

 

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Tacos And Bollywood: An Immigrant Sharing

Sometimes when my day just sucks or I am really tired, all I want to do is eat tacos and listen to Bollywood music (Not Taco Bell. I am talking true Mexican style tacos).

Why Taco's? Well most days when I am upset I don't feel like cooking. Good authentic tacos are cheaper than Indian food in Madison. Most importantly though they have more of a "home cooked" feel.  While Indian food is my comfort food, restaurant Indian food in Madison feels well like "restaurant food."

In the small  family run Mexican joints I find the flavors that are familiar to my palette. It also gives me the feeling of going to the food stall around the corner back in Mumbai.

Strange right? But that's how it is.

As it turns out though it is not so strange- at least not to one of the Mexican girl who works at El Pablano.

While waiting for my tacos after a really tiring day, I was asking her what things behind a refrigerated case were. She was struggling to explain the taste of something- as she could not think of the English word. So she brought on out a container so I could smell it. The guy who took my order earlier- returned at this point, and stated it was cinnamon. I thanked him and her, and continue conversing with the girl.

I explained why I like Mexican food and how it appeals to my Indian palette. Upon learning that I am from India- she looks excited, and explains she loves Bollywood. She changes the music to some good old Mohabbatein. She explains that Bollywood movies and music are her and her sister's go to entertainment. She says she like it more than American TV, and asks me how to say some things in Hindi.

So here we are two immigrant girls- chatting- and finding comfort in other's culture. It is one of those surreal moments in life that I won't be forgetting any time soon.

Wednesday, July 9, 2014

A generation 1.5 Immigrant: A Fish Out of Water

Despite this blog being called
"Chai and Pie." I really have not talked about cross-cultural issues. I think it is due to the fact that it is difficult to talk about things when the topic makes you feel vulnerable. But at core of my existence is my mixed identity; I would not be authentic if I did not talk about it. What perhaps makes my identity more complicated is the age at which I came to the United States.

While my childhood was honestly Indian, I was very much an American Teenager in many ways.
As a result I do not really identify with Indians who were born and raised in the United States. Nor do I identify with my parents, or other first generation immigrant Indians. I do not know any Indians that are like me, a generation 1.5 immigrant (Not saying there aren't any- I just don't know any). Therefore, my closest Indian friends are in India. Most Indians I hangout with in the US are related to me. My friends in the US are mostly those to identify as American. I am very grateful for the friends and family I have both in India and the United States- Honestly, they are awesome! They have accepted me and mixed loyalties, and the confusions that comes with it. But not having many Indian friends in the US (first or second generation), or those who share my mixed loyalties- often makes me feel like the picture above. A fish out of water!!

Rather, I am that fish jumping out of a bowl with many into a bowl by myself. The bowl full of fish are representative of  the several different cultures I am part of.  But often wind up deviating from. I guess more accurately there would a graphic showing a fish jumping in and out of water.

Upon searching on the internet- I found I belong to a group called "Cross Culture Kids." More on being a Cross Cultural Kid some other time but knowing that I am part of a larger community of people with mixed identities- well there is comfort in it!! None the less I cannot help but want more Indian- American friends. It's something I plan to seek out more but not if they come at the expense of the great friendships that I have now. Not that I anticipate that happening.


* I found this image when I googled "fish out of water." I do not own the image. I do not intend any copyright infringement. 

Monday, July 7, 2014

Burger and Brew

I love FOOD so what I am going to say next is a surprise. I am unsure about going to Food Festivals. Why? Well, first of all portion sizes tend to be smaller than what you would get for the same price normally. The event space tends to be super packed. There is usually too much going on. That said the foodie in me wins and I tend to go to some festivals anyway. So this year M, and I decided to go to the Burger and Brew in Middleton.

Compare to most food event's Burger and Brew is very well priced at $30/ per entry. Also unlike most food festivals two people can share a ticket! One ticket gets you four pours of beer or soda, and three burgers. You can buy more "pours" at the event. You can use two "pours" for a dessert. The burgers we had were really good but greatly varied in size. They were more "sliders" than burgers. The beers I tried were quite good. The desserts were okay nothing special. And the only soda options  were locally brewed which was cool but unfortunately the taste really disappointed. One big CON was that even if you had tickets you had to wait in line about 20 minutes to get it, And when you did get in- there was NO where to sit. It was really frustrating trying to juggle a glass, and a burger while trying to eat . I feel like need a wave system or something. Yet overall I think the Burger and Brew fest was worth the money. I will definitely attend events by Reap Food Group in the future. If I do go to Burger and Brew again, I will go EARLY!! As a date too- it was great. Nice to get outside.We bought two tickets and shared it with another couple. Great double date idea.

Changes...

"And that is how change happens. One gesture. One person. One moment at a time.”
Libba Bray, The Sweet Far Thing

In evolution, "adaption" is the process of slow change while "mutation" is rapid changes in a small period of time. Don't quote me on this- I might be completely wrong. It is just how I differed them in my mind. Like in evolution our life we have slow constant change we are adapting too. Then there are those periods where we have bursts of changes. I am in the latter right now.

Some of the big changes are as follows:
1) Finished graduate school
2) Bought a house
3) Parents are selling their house
4) For the first time in my life I am closer distance wise to my parents than my sister
5) Seriously thinking about career since I graduate that might mean a job change. Not sure yet. 

These changes are just that- different, a change from before. They have changed how I conduct my daily life, and as a result recently I have reflected on change and how we as humans deal with change. I have come to realize that people assume change to be good or bad- but many times it is not something that we can tell right away, only time will tell. You also need not fear change. I am truly surprised at how many people do. I believe you should embrace change but be cautious. It is the smart way to deal with it. Things are always changing, and sometimes you don't even know it. 

“The present changes the past. Looking back you do not find what you left behind.”
Kiran Desai, The Inheritance of Loss


Thursday, July 3, 2014

Thrifty Tuesdays

Dates for most people is a weekend affair. That is true for us as well. But in the summer when weekends get full quickly between weddings, grill outs, parties, etc. It is nice to get a quick date in during the week to relax and enjoy. If it is affordable then it gets extra points. And, that's what thrifty Tuesdays is all about!!

Metcalfe's Market has what they call the "Tuesday Night Run." Members (anyone can be a member by signing up online) get 10% off every Tuesday night including on their hot food bar which is yummy!!! In addition to that- the second Tuesday of every month they have tastings for specialty food all over the store. Tuesday nights is fantastic night to make Metcalfe's part of your date night and because it's a gourmet store you have many options.


A couple of options are as follows:
1) You could go on the second Tuesday night sample some free food, and then head to Barnes and Nobles next door (West Side) and wander together- It's Free!!
2) You could buy some gourmet cheese and wine, and have small picnic.
3) Buy fancy ingredients, and make a nice dinner at home together. If you have kid's send them to to movies!!
4) Do a cliche, which M and I often do on Tuesdays- Dinner, and a Movie!!

We usually get food from the hot bar which we either "take-out" and eat at home, or eat in their little cafe (On the West Side Metcalfes- they let you eat in the cafe,not sure about Midvale). I recommend Metcalfe's Chinese food it is really good American- Chinese. Follow it up with a movie at Point Cinemas for $5 Tuesdays. Marcus currently runs specials where every movie is $5 all day on Tuesdays at all their theaters including the Ultra Screen. I would recommend buying tickets EARLY for popular movies.

Overall, Tuesday nights are a great night to get a date in and run an errand to the grocery store. Two birds with one stone! We do it often, and enjoy ourselves. It's not something path-breaking but it's fun. It is super affordable- it is a date night for under $25!!

Note: The image above belongs to Metcalfes. No copyright infringement is intended. Neither Marcus nor Metcalfe's has paid me in anyway. These offers are up to the businesses they can stop it at any time. Metcalfes is ending Tuesday Night Run in October. 

Friday, June 27, 2014

Coming Your Way

The purpose of this blog is evolving to help me be more focused and me more accountable for time. There is absolutely no reason I have not posted something more recently except plain and simple procrastination. Now that I am done with graduate school that seems to be a focus in my life: Procrastination. It needs to stop. So it starts with the blog here are few posts.

Coming your way hopefully by the 4th of July not necessarily in this order:
1) Fish Out of Water : A tale of my struggles with my identity
2) Thrifty Tuesdays: An idea for a cheap date night
3) Burger and Brew: Recap of a date night
4) Immigrant Moments: A fun heart warming moment
5) Changes: Like I said I graduated but that's not the only change

So stay tuned.

Wednesday, June 4, 2014

A Bassett Street Brunch And Macarons

This is the first in the series of our dates : Brunch and a Cooking Class!

For some reason nights and evenings have capitalized "dating." Poor days!It's like one cannot be excited and romantic during it. Well this first date definitely breaks that mold. Morning and afternoon dates are especially great on Sunday, so you can still go to bed on time starting the week fresh? Just kidding... that did not happen but we did have the date on Sunday. Part of the date was impromptu, and  the other part had been booked a week in advance.

We started by heading over to Bassett Street Brunch Club, a place we have enjoyed in the past, and did this time too!! We decided on Bassett Street because we had a gift certificate that sweetened the deal. Definitely recommend the Fried Chicken with Biscuits. This is a good entree to split if that is your thing. We did not this time but might in the future. They also have donuts. In Madison given the reputed Greenbush I was skeptical. But these were good! M especially likes the Maple Bacon Donut.

After filling up with brunch,we headed to Orange Tree Imports to learn how to make some macarons. In addition to being a gourmet food store, they do cooking demo classes. We love macrons (and had heard they are temperamental) so why not have a professional show us how to make it? We did book this class in advance. I came across it while looking for something else. Unfortunately, at that time the class was all booked up. I put us on the wait list and two spots opened up the previous weekend. And so the wheels were put in motion for this date. While the class was informative and useful, it was not what I expected. It's more like an extended demo, and there was minimal hands on cooking. So that was a tad disappointing. But learning, and eating macarons was pretty cool.
 

Overall  I think as a date: brunch, and a cooking class is a pretty solid option. Would I say this particular class? Not sure, I did learn, and the instructor was good. But it was quite pricey at $80. 00 for two people. And without an hands on experience- not really worth it in my opinion. The brunch was reasonable I think it was about 30 something with beverages, and an appetizer. And it was yummy. But together this put the date in the $100 + category which is expensive for us. And not really a possibility to do often. But something to consider is this can be adapted to be cheaper if done differently?A cheaper spot for brunch, and  
may be a cheaper class? Or a Free Demo at a Grocery Store? It can!! So it is something we will change up, and do again.

So would I recommend; Basset Street: Yes, Orange Tree Imports Cooking Class- May be, it depends on what you are looking for, and Brunch and a Cooking Class as a date? Yes!

Tuesday, May 20, 2014

Dating Blues

You get married or start living together, and something like this might follow:

A) Monday evening: you cook together, and watch TV. What use to be a planned date in the past become a necessity, and therefore becomes a rut.

B) You might be spending 3 to 5 nights a week together. So part of the point of dating is to spend alone time together and you are already doing that, right?

It is easy to get in a RUT. It is even easier to forget to "Plan" a date.

Dates are more than alone time together. It is time you spend together to get to know each other and understand each other. It is about making the other person feel special. In essence it is putting effort into a relationship.  That's why you can have friend, mother, siblings, etc " dates." But I digress...

The point is it is easy to put "dating" on the back burner especially in couples. M& I, have been guilty of this recently especially while I have been in graduate school. As I graduated this past weekend, we made a promise to spend more time together being more purposeful about "dating." We also want to try and think about our "dates" so we don't get into a Dinner and Movie rut.

So starting now I am going to attempt to chronicle our dates. Most of course will be in the lovely town of Madison but some outside.




Saturday, May 10, 2014

When the going gets tough...

You Pause. You Avoid. You Dwell. You Stop Caring. You Get Angry.  But you pick up and move on!

Honestly speaking the last few months have been physically, and emotionally exhausting. I have been sick every other week, school has been tough to keep up, work has been draining, and my parents are having some difficulties too which also required my time. As I try to keep up- I have done all of the above; procrastinated and not done anything (pause), pretended like I had control (avoid), worried too much about things I could not control (dwell), I started letting myself go (stopped caring), gotten angry at the world (angry), and now I am ready to move on.

A few Thursdays ago- I did not pack lunch so I walked to get some lunch. As I walked  I focused on the good in my life. I am graduating with a master's degree, I am healthy, I have incredible friends and family, and so much more. I decided enough is enough.

I AM am going to get my act together.

I am not there yet. Since then I have slipped a few times, and needed to pick up again- but I know I can do it. Things might unravel again but I will then do it all over again, and not give up.

I think sometimes society, and we ourselves do not give enough credit to will power.
Originally I had a long ramble about the messages we are getting from society about will power etc, But I realized something- it was hard to convey, and I could not do get the words quite right. So all I want to say is without dismissing real problems like depression is that we as humans have amazing will power. Sometimes we forget that. Will power is not the ability to overcome problems right away- it is the ability to process it however one must, and to keep going. To fail and try again.

So when the going gets tough, remember you can get going too- and it's a process.

Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Ghar Se Ghar Tak (Fom Home to Home)

Whenever you travel there is a familiar feeling when you hit your own bed- It’s good to be back home.  

But it’s strange to say that when I come back from India- where is home? I was very much an American teenager, but I had an Indian adolescence. As such, going to back to India is very much an emotional roller coaster.  But this trip which I made after being away for too long…  What more? I took my white husband with me. But this journey was too beautiful- if chaotic at times. None the less- I rediscovered India, and it’s still beautiful. India is not perfect by any means, nor was this trip, but those are discussions for another day.  Today is about the beauty of India.  


I grew up in a city of dreams, Mumbai. One day in Mumbai of taking it all in- I was reminded how beautifully diverse India is. To an American eye India might appear less diverse but that is not the case. There is no religion, language, class, caste, and yes, even race uniting India. It’s strikingly diverse. Indians’ embrace and fear this diversity all at the same time. It’s untamed- there is always something going on, and it’s always changing. People are curious if sometimes a little nosy. But adults and children alike bask in their curiosity. In this curiosity I find acceptance, how can you possibly embrace a person or idea without getting to know it? It’s spiritual not necessarily religions. One will be surprised by the number of Hindus at Haji Ali or Mount Mary, and vice versa. India is colorful and historic. Both these things entice me. India is full of contradictions- this both a positive and negative.It’s reminiscent of us,human beings. India at the end of the day is home.

But at the end of the day lying on my bed in Madison, Wisconsin felt like home.  My trip to India in December 2013 returning January 2014- was a trip from home to home.

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Why do you Blog? Who Knows about it?

Few months ago, I came across a post on Franish where she discusses not necessarily wanting her Med School Colleagues to know about her blog. That combined with my recent conversation with a local blogger, got me thinking- Why am I blogging? Who Knows about it? Does it Matter?

I started this blog when I started my life as a married women. I have not hidden the blog nor have I exactly promoted it. I am honestly not sure where this blog is going to lead. But like Franish I am not sure I want some people to know about it. Why? Because I don't think they get it, and I don't want to be judged.

 Haven't I, however, by putting up a public blog opened doors for public discussion on what I am saying, whether its positive or negative? It may happen. I could privatize it but that was not why I am blogging? I am not sure.

Right now the blog is very low key, and pretty much about my thoughts and story. Someday it could evolve into some substantial content that people want to share and read- then it brings up a question of do I have  an obligation to my readers?  I don't know.

For Now I Blog, with the hopes of blogging more in the future. Lets see where this goes?

Obligatory New Years Post

Happy NEW YEAR!

Much has happened in 2013, Much More is to happen in the future ....